Feedback, Gullibility and The Barnum Statements problem

Feedback, Gullibility and The Barnum Statements problem

A new colleague told me last week that the first time that we met I was a complete jerk. They obviously didn't use the word 'jerk', but I sounded 'jerkish'. It hurt . Aside from the obvious professional concerns some of the things they were describing were things I would hate to have associated with me as [...]